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I listend to a podcast about why Democats might be attempting to save a Republican speaker, but my mind was elsewhere today. While driving, I found myself pondering over how to improve communication with my business partner. I began questioning wheter the failures I attributed to others might actually stem from my own actions. It made me wonder if I'm truly as patient as I believe, or if it's just a facade. 

 

During this contemplation, I recalled Shin Dongyeop, a well-know Korean celebrity, discussing his understanding of marraige. He pointed out that people often consider what qualities they seek in a partner for a successful marriage, but the real question should be about self-evaluation. He emphasizes honesty, suggesting that the ture measure of oneself is how we act when alone, and questioning wheter our behaviors are acceptable to others or need improvement. 

 

This perspective shifted my foucs. It inspired me to introspect and work on myself, instead of highlighint the faults in others. Of course, there's no guarantee that this shift in perspective will be permanent. Even if the change is temporary, the fact that I've become more conscious of these aspects is valuable in itself.

 

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