There are two distinctive relationship styles that people often navigate between. One style is about finding "the one" and being deeply devoted to that relationship. The other style leans towards believing that there are always other options available, never fully committing to one person.
A healthy relationship often involves finding a balance between these two extremes. Leaning too much towards the first style can lead to obsession, whereas the second style may lead to fleeting, avoidant relationships.
From my own experiences, I've started to adopt what I call a "pragmatic relationship style." I've realized that I'm quite sensitive to the end of relationships, which can leave me feeling depressed and disappointed. To protect myself, I've learned to reserve some of my energy and affection, which helps me not to feel too devastated if things don't work out. This is a big lesson from my past relationships, and it has significantly changed how I approach love. However, there are times when I miss being able to give someone my all, feeling fearless in my devotion as if I could lose everything else and still be okay.